Bondage for Beginners
In the last thirty years bondage has risen in popularity on many couples bedroom to do list. No longer is it considered intense and painful as it once was as new variations ensure there’s a bondage scenario to suit everyone.
Introducing bondage into the bedroom can seem daunting at first, especially if you’ve never experimented before, however once tried you’ll be hooked for life.
There are very few men who don’t like the idea of a gentle bondage session, as it gives them a chance to release the control and takes the pressure off them to perform at their best. With a girlfriend or partner they adore being told what to do whilst they wait in anticipation for what will come next. It’s this that makes it an ideal pampering session for a man, as although women enjoy a massage or oodles of foreplay, men love being used for a woman’s sexual pleasure.
When starting with bondage you don’t need any special equipment or kits, you can experiment with items around the bedroom making it a free way to spice up the sensuality!
Block out the Senses
The first thing you may want to try is a blindfold. You can make your own with a scarf or invest in one made from silky material. Many blindfolds don’t completely block out the light as they allow the wearer to peek through the gap on the bridge of the nose, however new products are now available to combat this problem. By blocking out the sight of your partner you heighten the other senses, you also whip them up into a frenzy as they have no idea where they will be touched next. You can start by licking, sucking and stroking and increase the temptation by leaving them completely alone for a minute or two before returning to start again. Remember you have all the control, and it’s up to you to decide when to bring your partner to climax. With the blindfold on you can also whisper your intentions into their ears letting them know exactly what’s coming next. Envisage their body as an ice cream you want to completely devour. Take your time but don’t forget to pleasure yourself too as your moans of pleasure will only increase the intensity.
Take Away their Power
The next step is to take away another of their senses or at least part of it. This involves touch. You can use silk scarves, their ties or even tights to tie their hands to the bed posts. Some like to tie the legs or ankles too to give a sense of complete submission. Women and men will adore knowing that they are quite powerless and everything is out of their hands. As you brush yourself up against his or her body and tease with your fingers, mouth of even a feather, they will be desperate to reciprocate wanting to touch you however this lack of power only adds to their increasing pleasure.
